He really does.
Anyway… two things
First of all… sorry for the rapid TFK spam, but one of my followers posted them and if you’ve been around my page long enough you’ll know I’m a TFK fanatic :D
They are my FAVORITE band. No arguments. No second guessing. (no matter how much metal I spam, its still TFK all the way)
I’ve actually posted half the songs before in the past… usually with lyrics XD
(SPEEDY POSTING MUSIC AND LYRICS!?!??! UNTHINKABLE!!!!) XP
And now the second thing… kinda of depressing…. kind of cruel-ish…. idk… but I feel like I gotta talk about it. (If only I had a blog… o_o)
I know… my random mid post side thoughts are annoying… I’m sorry XP
I told you I think too much…
BUT I FREAKING DIGRESS…. -rezones-
Okay let’s be perfectly honest. 80% of the Tumblr population… is female (thats a guesstimate, but a fair one) (HOLY CRAP GUESSTIMATE IS A WORD?!?!?!?)
But yeah….
mostly girls right. And most every girl on here always is posting something about relationships and what not… or at least most the girls I follow (and pretty much all the people I follow are followbacks of blogs I like)
Quite a few times in a day, I’ll see this crap that sounds something like this:
If a girl walks away, don’t let her. Chase after her. Hold her close. Pour out all your love. Be everything. That’s all she wants from you. She wants you to show how much you mean and BLAH BLAH BLAH freaking blah…….
Okay…. can I say something? No? Too bad.
THAT’S A LIE. Maybe not all the time. But from my own experiences and the sad stories of mis amigos. IT. IS. A LIE.
GOD I WISH it were that easy. It’s not. IT IS NOT. So please stop.
If a girl is tired of you. She is tired of you. If she walks away, she usually is going to have a more valid reason for it rather then just to make a dramatic romance moment. (And if that was the reason, truth be told, I’d find a different girl. Let’s get real here a bit. Let’s not screw with MY EMOTIONS) Yes girls, guys have emotions too. Shocking thought I know.
I’ve been through that. Where the girl has more or less just walked away. I chased her. I kept my distance for a bit. I didn’t get all in her face crying. But I didn’t stop letting her know how much I loved her and how much I cared. If you’ve followed me THAT long, you probably know that. I freaking gave every ounce of my heart out, 24/7.
Guess what. We’re not together again.
Yes, it still hurts. Yes, I cried. Yes, I occasionally still do sometimes, but admittedly, for slightly different reasons.
Chasing the girl doesn’t always bring that happy fairytale ending, so please, get over that. Don’t think its the magical fix. AND PLEASE TO GOD GIRLS. DO NOT put a guy through that. Especially a guy who has done nothing but care for you from day one. DO NOT DO THAT TO HIM. I am begging you.
The day you think about doing that, I pray to God that he puts the thought in your head and goes “OH HEY, that lunatic Speedy on my blog said that this would hurt the guy, maybe I shouldn’t.”
If you truly love somebody, you’d never think of walking away. I’m freaking quoting that after I finish this post that’s how much I mean it.
If you truly love somebody, you’d never think of walking away.
Please don’t ever forget that, and don’t forget that guys aren’t just these good looking rocks who stand there and respond “sounds cool” to every suggestion.
We have emotions, and we have feelings… and when we get attached, we CAN cry too.
But yeah, just stop thinking that fairytales come true. There are no fairytales. There are blessings from God, and each and every day, we receive one. Don’t take a single one for granted. Especially not the one in the form of that person who loves and cares about you, unconditionally. (and although that sounds like Christ, I’m actually meaning your “significant other”)
But yep, those are my thoughts and such….
thank you new followers.
thank you old.
if you read this all…. -highfive- :D
Have a good night guys. God Bless
Speedy shutting up.
